A Body-First Emotional Regulation Method for Children

The Feelings Ghost Method is a body-first approach to emotional regulation for children. Feel it. Name it. Help it.

Feelings Ghost smiling and holding out a hand, surrounded by colorful sparkles
01

Feel it.

What do you feel in your body?

Notice the physical sensation.

02

Name it.

Connect it to a possible feeling.

03

Help it.

Support the body through movement, breath, pressure or touch.

Start with the body

What do you feel in your body? Begin with this question when a feeling grows big. Notice together, without needing one right answer.

Connect and support

The same feeling can show up differently for different children. Connect a body signal to a possible feeling that might fit.

Then return to the body for support through movement, breath, pressure or touch. The method offers a simple shared way to explore what a child notices and what may help in that moment.